HJSF (her new nickname for him) is alive and well...

The woman has noticed her "hacker/stalker" dude continues to not only sign into all of her accounts, change the settings, ("forwarding" email address, visual effects (he is apparently blind and has to turn the screen on "large" print, etc.), and change things to "his" liking so he can "see" her anytime he wants to via the computer; he continuously gets into this account because he likes to "erase" the tracking data, although ironically there are "several" different accounts that track the info, (and we will just say here and now that once you report an account to Google as hacked, well, enough said) -- so such as we can see who is viewing this particular account, it appears to be some vampire site, another rating site and a few others ad-related. Otherwise, he thinks he has erased the data and kept her "clueless." Ha ha.

Hacker dude has now also gained access to her personal hard drive and not only "copied" her entire hard drive and its contents, but erased ALL of her latest work, from her "book" that is personal and not even public yet (there are a whole lot of issues surrounding that, although it is copyrighted so we will see what authorities and criminal attorney has say about that one); but the articles and "personal" info were for publishing as well (assigned so there are now publishing rights involved), not to mention the people she interviewed and has kept notes on, etc. that is supposed to remain "private" -- not to mention her personal photos, her family (the ones of her is what she is most worried about); and other things like work and photos that took weeks and months to gather and do research and then in a matter of seconds all of this work "just disappeared." Crazy.

He has also recently created "another" account for himself and just attached himself as a "user" and now she has sharing on everything and everywhere, with remote desktop controls planted everywhere to boot (that was a new one). There were even little ".exe" Trojans dropped here and there – hidden behind software or downloads and updates. So, either he has assisted the help of someone who is versed in this stuff, or they are equally jealous (or hateful/spiteful) because who does this to someone, right? Who not only stalks/hacks someone for almost 3 years, continuously day in and day out – and then steals there info (remember, this is computer number 7; cell phone number 5, etc.). What, he can't think for himself either and needs info and is using hers to get through life? Does he steal everything? From certain contacts and info only such as "wine" contacts and info to certain articles; for instance, anything "dating" related, forget it. Damaged; destroyed; gone in an instant on finding. If she doesn't code it, it's gone the second he finds it, especially if he disagrees with it or mentions "crazy." It's almost comical actually. So why the contacts and articles keep mysteriously "disappearing" who knows. Heck, we are running out of ideas. We at first thought he was just after the business – that he wanted to know "what it was all about and he was after that "never before been done" secretive business plan" – but now it's way beyond that. It has become evident that he is either far beyond in love with her and has gone completely cookoo bananas; or, he truly is just psycho.

All we know is that not only is her info getting stolen, but they went after our info, contacts, files, etc. –again, still. And, he has copies of things that are extremely personal, and some that are just not publicized yet, such as a book; business info; etc. so no doubt there are multiple felonies wrapped up in that because there are also medical files. So, what does one say after being stalked for so long and this being allowed to occur? I suppose in the grand scheme of things, the way we see it, due to the attention we just may end up thanking him some day.

She thought it was to keep her from succeeding; to drive her crazy (or try to); but as she says – be very careful who you try to drive crazy if they are already walking that thin line *laugh* ;)  But in all seriousness, who does this to another human being? It is just not human. It is not logical. It is not right. It is just not acceptable. But, the one thing I suppose he did not count on was meeting his match patience-wise. Although it's almost ironic because you'd have to be human to have patience. Nuts, isn't it?

So, he may continue to hack into her accounts,our accounts, her employer's accounts – steal info, erase info, make her life a living hell (the intent, we are sure); in fact, the other day after talking to authorities – during a period of time he was "not" present (actually, during a period of time he was changing his DNS routing (long story for another time) ...during this time, she was left to "do her work" without being harassed, and she managed to get her work done in less than 20 minutes, whereas it takes her a normal 3 hours with him on harassing her. So, as you can imagine – just not having his presence, or him going in to mess things up, saves over 2 hours of her time. Just that type of thing can save her from his idiocy and ridiculousness. For what? To mess with her? Make himself look good? But he doesn't even show himself, so that makes absolutely NO sense. Again, it's not normal human behavior – it truly is from the workings of minds of abnormal or someone seeking revenge. We can tell from experience, it certainly isn't out of love, not even the psycho kind. *laugh*

We do know that what they don't know (we say they because there are still multiple issues, multiple hackers) is that there are tracers; we won't go into detail, but just as they can drop their little ".exe" files that are sometimes "remote desktop" files or "trojans" – there are two-way droppers. The same for what happens when you inform someone you've been severely hacked. Enough said. So, erasing tracking codes or erasing partial or all of the history in someone's browser? *shaking head* It won't erase a presence. Any "real" hacker will tell you that.

So, for those who suspect someone has been on there computer, there are ways to check; we would suggest a great site by the FBI (                         ) and from there, be sure your system is up-to-date and all programs and software are kept updated. Stay informed about your Windows programs, such as some have had back doors and issues and there are patches (and if you have auto downloads, they can be auto corrected). Anti-virus even have back doors, so be careful. Some good ones are Kaspersky; the one thing you need to be certain of with any anti-virus is to wipe your drive and bios and roots of any malware and ensure your stalker is not present on that machine before you start over. This is a MUST because they can hide, and sometimes in the software you copy and put back on your machine. So, the experts can help with this – that's why they get paid the big bucks :)

This woman not only found one remote user, she found three. Nice, right? Three people roaming her computer. And then she found they had copied her entire hard drive, after making it "public" – with two download system folders. They also did versions of files and folders (up to six or even a dozen, to make her think she was "crazy" thinking she had revised a file or not done work, etc.) – that was the worst. Spending weeks on an interview and then to have the file disappear. Or writing an article and having it disappear before your very eyes or when you walk out of the room to get coffee. What was the purpose? No matter how many times she would disable remote users, media (the way they got in) – they were already there. She would turn on her phone and find several unknown devices show up when trying to pair her Bluetooth; another indication. Her cable would go on and off whenever she was 15 minutes to the end of a movie (his favorite). So don't think your cable can't be hacked – everything is hackable, especially if Wi-Fi.

And again, when someone enters through a back door on your computer and gets to your anti-virus, be sure your password covers the "silent mode" because if he can silence the messages, the damage they can do if you don't see those pop up can be done in a matter of minutes. He could get into the anti-virus via back doors, silencing first all of the notifications (because otherwise she could see what he was up to), then he goes to that and disables it, then to the firewall to revamp settings and adjust, etc. and then he downloads and unblocks certain programs. He then resets firewall settings, allows certain programs, adds certain programs to the block/allow list, and then gets out (or stays in). And this is all within a matter of minutes by the way. There is a trail if you know where to look.

The other thing is that is so scary is that although he is no longer stalking her in person (at least that she is aware), he is continuously "monitoring" her by stalking her via the Internet. Internet Stalking, the new stalking for those who have no stones. So, we are just wondering at what point that part becomes "illegal"? Like really, dude? You can't break into her home at-will anymore so now you have to stalk her via the Internet? Wow, like that makes you some big man with nothing inside or in-between. We aren't even going there (don't get me started, like she says all the time). At some point they will be caught, as I have told them repeatedly. My patience, and hers, is as strong as their will to be crazy. With that said, as she hears them sometimes or sees his presence on the Internet, she patiently waits. And waits. Because one of these days she will be the one visiting him behind the other side of the glass screen.

We hope your week has been going well. All of our has -- and then some. The business is moving along, and all sorts of wonderful things are in the works. More on that soon.. the information is on the "other" computer and the email tree is not in our working phones but our other phones. Having to keep secretive everything is a little crazy but in a way, it is setting her up for when she finally goes incognito. Oh we can't wait – the treats that are in store then for her fans. In the meantime, hold those smiles and don't let the stress get to you. Take a deep breath and remember, it does get better. Just be thankful you don't have an Internet Stalker/Hacker dude *laugh* (love that her sense of humor is intact)

Oh, and Happy Valentine's Day! It's only a few weeks away... be careful of the online dating sites... and be careful of the red flags... just have a good time and trust your instincts, they are never wrong. If you must use a dating site, just don't go with old rules – the new rules are ask all those taboo questions on the first date; get to know that person and use the traditional standards with long courtships; no one and we mean absolutely no one can be revealed in less than six months. Give it time and meet their family; watch how they act in front of others, including animals, the woman behind the counter at the grocery store, in traffic – everywhere and with every situation. The signs will be there. And by the way, living at home is fine if you are there with your parents for a reason, to help financially, one is struggling, or a recent tragedy – something that  brought the family together. And yes, this day and age people are living together due to expenses and whatnot; just be careful of those that are supported by mommy and daddy or who are not independent and who can't think for themselves. If that cell phone keeps ringing or if mommy says they can't stay late – just a few signs that there may be something wrong somewhere. Again, pay attention to the signs. We are not knocking roommate situations or parents helping their children (temporarily), etc. We are simply reminding people of not letting peer pressure or the "sign of the times" cloud your judgment with someone you're trying to get to know. That's it. Mere examples.


Oh, and by the way... due to the "hacking" we don't receive all posts, notes or any comments so if you have posted we apologize. Do try again.

A "New Year 2013" brings not only luck, but a new outlook...

We'd like to wish everyone a wonderful, magical and "lucky" new year in 2013 and we hope that all of you are prepared for what's to come as there are some exciting things coming your way.

For those following our posts for all of 2012, we appreciate your support and although we will continue with brief updates, the posts were removed. But no worries folks, the details of what this poor woman has gone through have not been forgotten, nor has she been lost in the world with the rest of the victim's. During the holidays there were some horrific things that occurred, but there were also some many good things. In light of the good (always the focus), she remains hopeful that someday this will all come to end. Until then, she forges on with determination to continue with a somewhat normal life (whatever that new normal be).

For now, her "stalker, hacker & harasser" remains alive and well and although he may be having difficulty with entering what is supposed to be her "safe" home at will as he used to, at least not with her new house guest and the fact that her home has been secured. In retaliation, however, he has slammed her on the Internet tenfold. It is a shame as she has been hit extremely hard in so many areas including what brings her joy and balance, it is a wonder she is able to maintain inner peace at all. 

This guy has now been allowed to enter her social media and business accounts at will, including the changing of codes that track things from traffic to payment; he's been allowed to change profile information to security information – and who knows what else. She recently had to put a fraud alert on her credit as a safety precaution for strange activity. She was told multiple issues were happening by authorities, which we knew all along, and it's no doubt there are multiple back doors.

She is doing everything possible to ensure her life doesn't get further ruined while he continues to find ways to make her think of him daily (isn't that the way it works with “this type” of person?) What is most troublesome is that it is being allowed, continuously, repeatedly, day in and day out. We have come to the conclusion that with things like erasing the tracking code he thinks it will erase the trail that leads to him; but surely he knows that it's not just her who uses such a code – that the publishing tool and site would use the same, thus authorities could trace him and his location in a matter of seconds. So perhaps it's not the tracing of his steps he wants removed but rather the ridiculous time it takes for her to have to re-enter the information, and more to the point – her thoughts of what an idiot he is or how much she dislikes what he is doing (the whole "she has to think of him" theory). Plausible, we suppose. But again, everything has a theory and truth behind, and whether it leads to a “conspiracy theory” behind the mind of a psycho or simplistic theory behind simple human error found behind “incompetency,” the truth always comes to light and reveals itself. Always. The good news with him being so diligent in his efforts to screw with her livelihood – by the doing of this, it brings the events from a minor misdemeanor and innocent hacking arena to categories lingering in the felony count zones.

This woman is strong and comes with a great deal of patience; that we have witnessed for ourselves. She said it has been extremely difficult in many areas, sometimes it felt she had been hit from all sides, with some people that didn't understand or who may have questioned something that had happened (making her feel they were questioning her); she even said some questioned her belief in some of the events that occurred, as if maybe it was not related somehow (just questioning her made it feel they were doubting her). She said it almost became easier to withdraw than to have to help people understand or to help them want to be more supportive. 

We tried to explain to her that this was normal; that some victims do withdraw with some even feeling more alone, especially when family and friends don't understand what the victim has gone through, or what they are currently going through – most particularly a tragedy that lasts a long time, such as with abuse. And even further broken down abuse goes much deeper when it comes to understanding such as with aspect or the length of time involved; some victims live in abusive relationships for years, many not leaving for fear. And oddly, sometimes a woman may stay out of loneliness. On the other side of that abuse coin might be those that want to leave but don’t how to begin; some may not have a clue how if that’s all they’ve known (such as right out of high school into an abusive relationship) or who don’t have help, or local support, financial assistance – or who simply just don’t know what to do to get out of the relationship. Regardless, it is equally damaging, and to an outsider, equally or more difficult to understand.

There are of course other types of abuse that occur in instances such as with this woman, where the abuse comes in many forms from the abuse of her “safe” space at home, to her computer (social networks, email that is supposed to be “private” to her phone, car, personal files, records, etc.) and the occurrence of such lasting for well over 2 years. Such a violation mimics abusive relationships, and, it can be difficult for others to understand – and rightfully so (there is no right or wrong with being the victim or supporter).

What we’d like to express is that crisis doesn’t just hit a victim, and it affects everyone in their lives – family, friends and even coworkers. And quite honestly, with what has happened and is happening to this woman, every single day of her life, imagine the frustration for her and for those that love and support her. It just can’t be easy on anyone.

Perhaps the one thing we can offer to others who may have a friend or family member experiencing crisis (of any kind, really) of whom they don't understand, or that maybe you’ve reached a point of being unable to take “any more of the story” out of frustration  we can only say this: Take a break. We often tell the victims this as well. Without taking a step back to find a different view, there’s no way to be able to accept or change perspective or direction.

The other thing we try to tell supporters is to just try to let the person know you care; trying to fix or change a problem immediately is not what victims want – they want only to know they have support and someone who cares for them. Being a victim is often more like existing in a dark and scary world, and very much alone. As friends and family who love and want to help these people, to see anyone they care about suffering hurts so naturally the first thing anyone tries to do is to change that, or fix it – ultimately leading to more harm than good. Believe it or not, however, it’s more about the touching of a person’s heart – that connection by humans that let’s the other know, in this case the victim, that you care and are there for them – 24/7 no matter what. That heart-kiss is worth a thousand hugs and words, and sometimes it is like hugging from a distance. It can come from telling a person you are there via text, email, telephone and in person – the point being, it’s not about what you want to do to help the victim, but about what the victim needs.

So next time that friend or family member of yours calls that you know is hurting, give them that kiss from your heart – let them know you are there for them, whatever they need.

And for supporters who come up with predetermined judgment, or who come to their own conclusions – be careful about voicing those. Sometimes the damage done is more severe than you might think. Sometimes saying to your friend that it doesn’t sound possible, or that you just can’t believe so-and-so could do such a thing – or worse, questioning their belief about what is happening (when they live it day in and day out); you might as well just flat out say to them, “I don’t believe you and I think you’re the one who is crazy.”

Another crucial stage might be during recovery, "after the dust settles" or while it is settling – when people don’t always know what to do or what another needs in their time of healing. Getting the proper help is crucial, which is exactly why Angels Gate Network is gathering a list of resources for those in need. Having that list of resources available is extremely important because sometimes the victim does feel alone, and sometimes there is nothing anyone can do during the healing process. Just imagine all the healing victims have to endure – and all the healing this woman will have to endure after almost 3 years of being stalked, hacked and harassed – she's been an open book for abuse for a very long time. It's not like she's going to wake up one morning and suddenly be cured. I think we just wanted to convey that support is a wonderful thing, and it doesn’t mean you have to understand something to be able to support those you care about. All victims need the unbiased and unconditional love and support of family and friends; and we just hope that everyone remembers that all relationships take work, with the remembering of the most important thing: It is never too late to be there for someone.

Oh, and there were a few things about technology that came up in a recent conversation such as a few folks who thought their computers had been infected or “died” after visiting this woman’s Facebook page or after receiving a Facebook message from this woman. First and foremost, people should understand that if they don’t maintain their computers with anti-virus, keep them up to date and programs updated (and know what they are doing) – going on any site is a risk. Sites like Facebook especially are taking a risk, so no, receiving a message from a friend on Facebook or even an email is not going to give you a virus – it’s going to take a lot more than that. You can visit a site that has a virus on it, and if your anti-virus doesn’t catch it, you could kiss your computer goodbye. We again just want to convey that people – more to the point, your friends and family, can’t be the blame for viruses. So be kind with your words and be careful not to blame the wrong person for you being careless or your machine not being carefully maintained. This woman made one reference to her “address book” being hacked over 2 years ago and everyone in it since getting hacked at one time or another – and it seems several of those people now think it was “her” who is to blame.

We hope we have enlightened a few folks today, if anything to help them become better supporters to their family and friends. Hacking has become a huge issue across the globe, and it’s not just about this woman, or the guy down the block or the girl a city over – it is happening everywhere and in a headline on every newspaper, on every site in America. So don’t place blame but do help us try to solve the issues. We can all start by being better supporters of those going through some of these issues or who are facing crisis.

We will continue to keep you all updated on things, however, for now we wish you a very happy, healthy, fruitful and wonderful New Year.

Stay tuned for more enlightenment, and of course, more "Conspiracy – or Incompetency Theory?" (scheduled to be released in 2013) a book written by an "Anonymous Angel" who has been stalked, hacked and harassed by someone (or, rather, a few individuals) for more than 2-1/2 years now – and she's getting just a wee bit tired of it being allowed to continue.

As with anything in life, however, there is always something good that comes from tragedy (the lesson not always being for the person going through it); thus as we continue on this journey with her, we will update you and continue to focus on the good. And, we will most certainly be sharing those good things with all of you so that everyone can benefit.

In the meantime, those that may be experiencing trouble with stalkers, hacking or harassment, or who may need assistance please do give us a shout, we'd be happy to hear from you. Ciao for now! ^i^