He thinks he's killing softly...

So the saga continues. It's like a Spielberg meets Hitchcock meets Spongebob movie, only it never ends (thus the sometimes idiotic, comedic Spongebob addition). She lives this nightmare every single day; and every single day he continues to hack her emails and "try" to destroy her life. Every single aspect of it. And he's allowed. Amazing.

He recently used a phone she no longer had. Yes, imagine that. She was no longer paying for the phone; had "canceled" the phone.. yet it is still working, with her info connected to it. Imagine that. Her gmail account says its data and email were linked to that phone all month, yet she didn't have her email linked to it... she purposely deleted all email (unbenownst to the hacker dude). And even after "calling" the ISP (which says a lot about Sprint & Virgin Mobile) -- her account continues to remain active, even though they claim it is "dead." Amazing.

We publish this only because people need to check, double check and triple check that their accounts are indeed "closed" and not just closed, but canceled and deleted. Just as she did. Ha ha.

She continues to cruise the net just to see.. figuring someone will eventually trace it, right?

He followed her to her new location; she did not bring phones or computers -- but he knew within a week. She knew he knew well before that; either that or her new roomie was nosey as heck. They broke in at least 7 times (according to her count); with items either broken or missing. An antique tea set from the 1920's is the latest broken. That was fun to find. Money, SD cards, photos, evidence... things he thinks will hang them all (all associated?) Who knows. They continue to come in "at will." The smoke alarm went off while she was taking a cold shower (same type of thing that used to occur in her "old" place. Maybe they thought she'd come running out without a towel? *shaking head*

So... not to give him notoriety by any means... but hello... this woman is in need of some assistance here. She applied for a safe address... that she can't seem to obtain. For some reason, it keeps getting delayed... as do the phone calls.. and the return calls.. and the messages... and the forms.. etc. (you get the idea). It's as if no matter what she does, something happens. Seems folks are "afraid" to help her.. people don't want to "get involved.". Any willing participants out there unafraid to assist here?

We are at the point of taking any willing help. We can't tell you anything about her whereabouts, but what we can tell you is a bit of interesting info that we found very interesting... not only was no proof of service received by the other party (yet a response was filed immediately on his behalf as to "how good their relationship was while together" -- totally missing the point as to why the RO was filed in the first place or the fact that they were technically only together a few months before the red flags started to show) ...but as usual, she has yet to receive her mail. We just found that a tad bit interesting. And, criminals get their one free postponement, as he did his. And attorney. And he wanted to postpone until a certain date; judge said sorry, no calendar that day (it was her birthday, ironically; we are sure no coincidence there). And then judge said a few weeks later to which a sudden "no" burst out due to no representation availability followed by a vacation; however, the judge just said how about a week from then? And suddenly sure, availability not an issue -- even though a few minutes prior there wasn't availability due to representation? Wonder if anyone else in the courtroom caught that one as well? There's more but we can't go into it. Just the same old... email getting hacked "daily" along with her FB, bank account, "new" emails, passwords, social accounts, "employer" accounts, business accounts, etc. We couldn't figure out how it was being done, but then found out codes were being used... along with password changes, erasing phone and two-step info and all other info, putting back what they could before she logged back in -- recovering accounts while on her wi-fi (same "blank" wi-fi name as before) -- in other words, same thing different computer. Oh, and the old passwords, so that it makes her look "stupid"? Nice one.

She can't get her printer to work again, not since court last week... so... not sure how he managed that one. It's just one thing after another. Erasing more info, thinking it was the only copy. Everything under the sun has been gone through, copied and returned. Her files are a mess. She got rid of everything -- decided it wasn't worth having anything anyone could get into anymore. The one thing he wants that he didn't get -- he is trying desperately to get one way or another -- breaking in every chance he gets from thinking it's in her purse or safe, drawer, desk or somewhere "evident" when she's not that crazy to keep it that close or easy for him to get.  It's almost comical, but at the same time annoying -- he keeps damaging things while looking. Insurance cannot replace these items handed down to her by her grandparents; or the items that were supposed to go to her children and grandchildren. He is a relentless with no-soul, no-heart and it's as if a non-human being that is not thinking. He must not think of his own children or mother. It is just awful. How dare he damage her belongings like that as if they were disposable and worthless. Almost anything of value has been destroyed, damaged or stolen. It is so sad.

The shower head she talked about that had gone missing? It was returned.. partially opened.. not sure what their plans were for that; the fact that it had been partially opened should have been a clue. Perhaps the same plans they had when they replaced the center of her last shower head with a "metal" piece when it was all off-white and plastic. As if she wouldn't notice. It makes her sick to think what could have happened. She has never allowed anything of that sort to occur ever in her entire life -- never has ever done anything that was for taping, photography, etc. that was of that nature. So to think someone taped or filmed her or her family while in the shower is unthinkable. Disgusting. Makes her sick. And that would have been for a two-week period, at least. The only people in her home were the cleaning crew that her daughter found on Groupon, or, hacker/stalker dude. Nice.

Same with where she is now. Texting to let her friend know when the lock would be changed and to have the roomie show up that one time only at that particular time, breaking their routine that one day only -- for a lock change? Things like that can be coincidences, or just a lucky setup. She had the lock changed that morning at 8:30 a.m., arrangements setup on a different phone that no one was supposed to know about. It's things like that that make people go "hmm." We post these things because she is not the only one that these things are happening to. Her makeup? Once again her eyebrow and eyeliner pencils are being "ground" down to flat -- kept in the bathroom, not locked so completely accessible. It's like wow, they can't get to the locked stuff so now it's back to that. It's what used to occur at the old place; a sure sign he's been there again -- at her new place. What in the world could he possibly be jealous of? The agency claims they see that all the time from ex-boyfriend stalkers. Nice. She says it makes one feel oh so secure.

She was just looking through her accounts. She not only found that her email account has a YouTube Video account "setup" and linked to it, but that it also has settings. When she first logged on, she discovered that it had settings for videos longer than 15 seconds. She just took the info and logged it, photos, etc. Then she started fishing around (this is after recovering her account yet again, about fifth time in a week?) ...and she finds that 11 apps have been uploaded to the phone that she hasn't had access to, or hasn't had email hooked to, remember? Including DLink.. a video program. She remembers this very well because she tried to use this camera and system on her phone one time (not through this account she is looking at, however) to track hacker.. only he found it and disabled it and did his usual disabling, etc. when she would go out of town. So now her mind was spinning, right? What in the world is she doing with a YouTube account, and with a video account, let alone 11 apps on a phone she is not using?

Add to that the settings that first appeared in Spanish. Great, was someone he enlisted Spanish speaking to boot? Would that explain the multiple times "David" from VM would keep telling her "not to worry, ma'am" your account is super secure with extra heavy "security measures" at Virgin Mobile; you have nothing to worry about and "I assure you, your phone has never been hacked." I wonder what color the sky is in his world. Unless he's involved. It was always "David" who closed the account or sent the new phone -- the replacement phone that came with a back, battery and SD card inserted. Or Alex, the guy who would first send you your PIN via text as a "test" text to ensure the phone was working correctly; and then send you a phone or inccorectly notate your account so you looked stupid when you called again (because they really don't know how to handle a hacker). She is just tired of sugar coating the customer service and being told "you don't have a hacker, ma'am, that's just ridiculous." And yet, she would call repeatedly with her PIN being texted to her, or the phone or texting not working "sent from a "hidden sender" or no calls received, or no calls going out... or her favorite, calling to a 24/7 number, such as AT&T or PG&E...and hearing, "sorry, we are closed now." Right. Anyway, this was not a bitch session or a complaint blog -- this was a note to be careful of the programs that are on your phone, or downloaded to your phone. Gmail may be easily hacked -- and not so easily recovered (or easily recovered if the hacker knows you and your life) but so is every other email out there if he has a program on your every device from wifi, computer, phone, cable, PG&E to Lord knows what else he can get his hands on. It is incredible what they can do remotely these days -- and make it look like you did it from your own computer.

We really do need to make this very, very clear. This blog was initially written because she was not hearing from authorities in the beginning; she thought it was her only way of hearing from someone. Remember, toward the end of last year and the beginning of this year, a Sgt. was "calling" her still and refusing to take a report. She desperately needed something to be done and she was basically being told she was the crazy one. She is not knocking anyone -- my goodness, this hacker /stalker idiot is good at making people look crazy. But, for goodness sakes, if only some of what she said were "looked" at or if officers had only witnessed even a portion of what she is saying happened, then authorities would have a clue. And, if only more understood the severity of what was being done -- this would not have gotten to the level it did. Not by a long shot.

She wasn't just finding someone in her yard or plantings of "individuals" on her security system or messages; she was finding "someone" that looked like her on her security camera. She was finding messages, threats and innuendos on her security camera that were obviously hand-written -- before it went blank or eventually was damaged completely. Well, it wasn't until the roofers who installed the new roof when it was completely damaged -- she found, however, that one of the roofers was talking to the neighbor in question at the old place and next thing she knew, the wires had been spliced on every camera in the system on the outer perimeter, and then of course as they did the roof above her room, the attic, well -- you know the camera system there had been destroyed. Coincidence? Perhaps. Again, just another one of those things that make one go "hmm." And the roofer? He claimed "no liability" whatsoever; said it was not his issue -- even though we were home the entire time he was working on the roof (two whole weeks mind you) -- he could have knocked on the door at any given time and said to please remove the cameras, unwire them, move them off the eve -- whatever he needed done. But no, they just spliced them in half, three's and more -- and then tried to tape them as if nothing happened. And then pulled the "no liability" and said it was in the contract. Really? Wow... and they call that professional? There's an article there -- it goes way beyond any customer service or professionalism I ever heard. We come from a family of contractors and construction; we know better. The roofer was an idiot, plain and simple.

The backup security system was no good -- more of a deterrent. A major brand mind you, and once again we've already written about this one. Again, she was approached by them to install, and sure enough during the majority of all the hacking/stalking and break-ins -- so sure, she was all for it, right? So, not sure how that fairs in all of this. She guesses that due to the fact that she was approached (sound familiar?), and that the guy who installed was seen in a car driven by the guy who was not only seen where she used to walk frequently, but also turned out to be a boyfriend of an ex-friend's girlfriend -- of whom, by the way, had a thing for this ex-boyfriend stalker dude and who made it known she hated that he approached this woman rather than her at the dance. Really? Wow.) Anyway, so another coincidence? Perhaps. There are so many pieces to this puzzle that we have not yet revealed and have been saving -- we just wanted to reveal a few because we have been discovering that as some evidence come to light, it is linking more and more people that we are shocked to find involved, yet it also pushes some over the ledge and makes others realize the severity of what we are dealing with.

For another taste, while she was moving, files would be replaced inside boxes or even in her "safe" with files she had thrown in shred; so a sign he used to do previously (his favorite way of saying "I was here"). He even left new boxes of shred or papers to go through -- after she was done with the house completely -- meaning they had returned even more paperwork they took from her home, even after she was done. It got to the point she had to stop going by there as she kept finding the garbage emptied; more boxes showing up filled with papers -- it was almost comical, but gettiing expensive. She no longer knew what was missing -- but she was sure it was somewhere between 2008 and 2012.As you know, hacker/stalker dude cannot do this alone, so he had to have enlisted the assistance of those in desperate need of "something." After all, who else would be so low as to do something like to another, and continue at such great pace -- unless for drugs or money? And how can he be in court and how can her room be burglarized at the same time, right? They have to know where she is at all times and that was a perfect setup. Unless of course it's her new roomie; CraigsList is, after all, not that reliable. It's like another nightmare movie that doesn't end.

So, as we forge on, we also continue to seek expertise in certain areas and help in others. What we can offer is continued partnerships in our ventures; we can discuss details with the right folks. We realize this is a lot of info but we released a bit more this time so people would know what we are dealing with and the level of their expertise needed (or the level these perps think they have). This woman is looking for help and as most can tell, desperately needs it. Never mind those piggy-backing off her name for marketing; she's given up on that and doesn't care. It isn't about her profile -- the others she has discussed this with (the other high profile business men who are undergoing similar situations and who have been told by authorities there is little that can be done) -- they feel the same; frustrated, and as though they are helpless. To a point.

She has sought assistance both under and above ground; and has the assistance of authorities, of whom she still has utmost faith in -- regardless of those few with whom the stalker/hacker dude has managed to convince she just might be somewhat "crazy." Well, that's all well and good -- but the way we see it, you just might have to be a little crazy to have made it through almost three years of someone doing this to you; how else could you get through without having gone after him herself, right? Ha ha. Just kidding. Geez, she can't even joke around or she could be deemed crazy and dangerous. Point being, she has remained sane and intends to long enough to see justice done. She has no choice. All of the other women have run or moved; that in itself intrigues many of us. She guesses because of the hell it takes just to get a Restraining Order filed let alone go through the process or try to fight something like this. These days it's a system built around the criminal with a guilty until proven innocent -- for the victim. We have never been so amazed by such a system and we are certain some authorities are equally amazed. However, we have to believe in justice prevailing. We just have to. With that said, we can only hope God is with her and others who have undergone similar circumstances and we can only hope it gets better. It just has to.

She refuses to be afraid; what they obviously tried to make her feel and continuously try to make her feel. This noise at night and the going through fences (it really is comical) and the leaving gates open and whatnot --it's getting old. Following her? C'mon ...she can pick out the stalkers vs. the PI's vs. well.. you get the idea. He can make her think she is as crazy as crazy comes but she intends to stand her ground because she won't let him take her everything away, nor will she let him destroy everything about her. He thinks he is killing her softly; he is building her up and he has no idea.

We sure hope no one else has had to endure what this woman has... but if by chance you have, we'd love to hear from you. Oh yes, and we are also looking for a writer. Contact us; we'd love to hear from those interested in helping. She is in need of quite a few "various" types of resources right now; I wish we could go into detail but we can't just yet. He really has done some major damage. He continuously hacks us so no matter the address, we still don't know how to receive your email; we just tried to allow posts and it won't let us -- no matter what we try to do, it won't let us do anything. Keep trying. we will try to provide alternate resources. You can also try another writer, PKCosta1@gmail.com -- if all else fails; she writes for Examiner.com and might be able to assist. Thank you so much for your continued support.

Have you had your smile today?

Absolutely Amazing...

We couldn't come up with a title for this one, in fact, we weren't even sure how to post the latest. However, it has to be posted for the sheer fact that this woman now can't receive her mail. We know this simply can't be true and must be a mistake, right? (I'm going to risk the valley girl talk, here) I mean, seriously, to be told by the post office (yes, by "Frank" at the local post office) that they do NOT track vacation holds, forwards, etc. for any length of time whatsoever means that stalkers, hackers, neighboring idiots and who knows who else (perps) can change, forward and basically SCREW with your mail, read it, open it, keep it for a few weeks and then reseal it and pop it back in the mail to be delivered to you (if they wish). In other words, her question for "Frank" was simple, "What good is having U.S. Mail if we aren't assured of receiving it, and if you're basically going to hand it over to "any" Tom, Dick and Harry to requests it?" His response? "We receive too many "hand-written" notices for forwards, mail stops, vacation holds, etc. to keep track of."

Are you freakin' kidding me? Seriously? I am still in shock. It's time to go above and beyond. And she wondered why her mail was not only opened, not received or delayed by a few weeks; but when she did receive it, why it had been opened and resealed. And this is acceptable to the U.S. Postal Service? Wow. Unbelievable. I sense a new trend coming on.

Add to that the fact that she was waiting for a "Safe at Home" address; yes, an address to keep her safe from her hacker/ stalker/ harasser;/ do you really think that's going to happen now? He already stole the evidence right out of her home that was to be attached to the Restraining Order (she was already wondering "no wonder women don't want to file for these things -- all that has to be done; all that they have to go through?" And now this? To file for a "Safe" address, only to be assured by the local post office of "never" receiving it? Nice.

We don't post this for publicity; we post this for help. It appears that NO ONE can help her. No agency, no authority; NO ONE. It certainly appears that way, doesn't it? Please do correct us if we are wrong. Either she is being sadly mislead or being given incorrect info, or something is very, very wrong with our system.

This after the discovery that not only was the "evidence" missing (stolen right out from under her, her purse, her "safe," her home, her "new" address) -- yep, she feels oh so safe. Her new computer was even opened. Not sure when that happened. The woman over the telephone from USPS who took her credit card info for the $1 to do the "forward" of her mail from her P.O. Box to her physical (just until the "safe" address was completed, which was so far delayed that it wouldn't have worked anyway) ...was "bogus" also? And, so now he has her credit card info. Nice.

So not only was she "not" receiving mail for two weeks (at least) or mail at her P.O. Box, and evidence to link the "ehem" people "near" -- no mail was being received toward the end because why... he thought she'd be so dumb as to put her new address on the form for the safe address? Wow. OK. And, then, just a few days ago... the same guy he sent before (a PI sent, she assumes) ...comes a knockin' at her "new" door... claiming to sell something or whatever...  but it was merely to verify if she was "there" or not... because the PI sat in his grey truck outside the residence a few doors down (she has very good neighbors now).

So.. in his efforts to spy on her and find her new address, he has done so. And, by the way, he has managed to not only find out her new "drug dealer disposable phone" number... he has managed to hack once again at least "twice" this email account, her Facebook account, her other main email account and her NEW email accounts that were brand new that NO ONE and I mean no one knew about ...so... tell me this is not being done by some tweak professional (or hacker hired by what thinks he's a professional)...?

Amazing. Luckily, the evidence is already in the hands of authorities. Like she'd keep the only copies in the safe she had in her "new" room that, by the way, either the new landlord already snooped in (right) ...or he's already been in 7 times now. The first five she chalked up to "snooping" ...but after the safe numbers were off by at least 10 (right, bumped? uh, try again)... she was taking photos and comparing them to how she left it and how it was when she returned? Well, needless to say it was never left in the same condition and EVERYTHING was rummaged through, and she said EVERYTHING... including her underwear drawer. DISGUSTING.

Also, the old place she moved out of? Not only did she rummage through and empty it at least twice, a third time she went back to drop off the keys and yet again found ANOTHER box of paperwork left in that old place for her. Like really? Are you kidding? So not only did they take the garbage yet again, take the ashes out of the fire pit when she thought she'd try burning some of the shred to save money (that was a classic -- like what was she going to do, burn love letters? He really is sick) ...but he took the garbage and stole photos, old photos, negatives -- once again invading privacy. These morons will stop at nothing apparently. And, yes, she has proof... she has a few photos of that stuff, too. Ironically they didn't realize some of what they did was traceable :)  Thank the Lord is all she could say.

This is getting to be so ridiculous, not even a sci-fi any longer.... but more of a Peyton Place meets Stephen King meets ET or something. It is absolutely ridiculous... the moronic moves of a psychotic (or whatever he/they are) -- she no longer has a label. She is done trying to figure it out and done trying to analyze; not her job and certainly not ours. Once again, we are not publishing this for publicity, but to warn victims out there -- this is how far some idiots will go to scandalize and hurt their victims. It was bad enough he had taped her, victimized, terrorized, followed, harassed, done all those terrible things for YEARS mind you -- but to continue as she tries to escape and find peace? Really? Wow... that is a sick beyond sick. No words. And to employ the help of even more sick people who need money or drugs to help him make her think she's the one going crazy? Shame on them. Absolutely shame on all of you... amazing that they even sleep at night. Oh, guess that takes a conscience, soul and heart.

So there you go. A whole lot more "coincidences" in the theories that keep building... and building...

Absolutely amazing. *shaking head*

Did you know...?

We are posting this only because we think others should know about "these types of things" available to the "average Joe" and likely "criminals" who use the info for the greater bad, not the greater good.

Did you know...?

·        Did you know that anyone off the street can purchase monitoring software that can monitor your every move via your cell, computer, car, etc.? (And they actually sell it through Private Investigator firms to online companies for use by business associates to spy on their competitors? Yes, really. And no, we aren't even talking about the black market or military stuff that is not normally available to the general public (that is much more advanced are far scarier); you probably don't want to know about that yet.)

·        Did you know that anyone, at any time, can attach a device to your vehicle without you knowing and follow your whereabouts to the exact location (if they haven't already hacked your vehicle's internal GPS or cell phone navigation system)?

·        Did you know that people can not only plant "monitoring" devices in your home, but also do so without ever entering your home? (Sounds like a spy movie, doesn’t it?)

·        Did you know that people are capable of monitoring a person's body image inside their home, such as with a software program that enables them to monitor that person to the point of knowing which room they are in at every moment of every day? 

·        Did you know that if you have an "unexplained" utility bills, such as electric (with an increase that is not due to taxes, new rate increases, new lighting or appliances, etc.) that it could quite possibly be due to "monitoring equipment" and sometimes up to $60 to $100 per month (or more) depending on how much equipment is being used?

·        Did you know that cell phones are not as private as people think (including text messages, phone calls, games, photos, etc.)?

·        Did you know that if your phone starts to go to sleep on its own (or wake up on its own); shut itself on or off; wake up and start the camera or video cam; or delete contacts or make phone calls, etc. that it very possibly could be the cause of not just a "software issue" or "virus" but due to a monitoring system installed onto your device? 

·        Did you know that when you receive a replacement phone that it is a refurbished phone, not a “new” device – and although under warranty, it it could have just been “wiped” and resent to you, with the same problems as the previous owner had if not taken care of properly at the Service Provider?

·        Did you know that anything and everything electronic is indeed hackable (such as a cell phone, computer, vehicle GPS, utilities, cable, Internet, "etc.") without you ever knowing? (Yes, someone could even remotely access your television and turn off your TV if they were upset with you (do a search on what to do with annoying neighbors; you’d be very surprised at what you’ll find – watch those pets and water bills).

·        Did you know that when you start to date that ANYONE is easily checked online, for free? Don't fall for those sites that make you pay incredibly high prices for info that is public knowledge; learn how to do a background check on someone before dating them or getting too involved. They could be the stalker/hacker/harasser from hell, very much like this poor woman has dealt with for almost 3 years now.

Well, we were shocked to discover that although illegal, indeed all of the above can and actually much of it has taken place or been done to this poor woman. We'd even say be cautious if leftover foods in your frig make you ill or taste "salty" or if "new" bottles of water start to appear opened way too frequently and even if your makeup has been tampered with (and you just can’t figure out “how) – be cautious; these are normal and things done by stalkers of ex’s.

No, we are not posting this to scare anyone or turn anyone into a paranoid tweak or to start acting like the tweak your stalker has become, we are posting this to inform those who may be in danger of crazy stalkers who think they are tracking people to know there whereabouts yet they are going above and beyond the usual stalking techniques these days and going too far. And most people (as this woman) are not privy to the signs that if you pay close attention to, your gut just may warn you of some of it. But, the unfortunate is, if your stalker is experienced, it can happen slowly over time and sometimes there is nothing you can do (although there is help out there if you know where to look). But the point we want to get across is that gut feelings are there for a reason, and they are there even if slight. It could be the flu; it could be an upset tummy from lunch; it could be the jitters, sure. But in reality, red flags way in the beginning, when you first meet a person that is "a little off" or that "doesn't seem quite right” will eat at your gut if not listened to. So please, pay attention to those red flags and do not let them fester or build until it’s too late to do something about it. You do not have to become Mr. Paranoid to the point of not having any friends or never leaving your home (or you may go as crazy as your stalker and then it's narrowing your chances of gathering valuable info), but do pay attention to those flags and start a journal (and keep it in a very safe place, even if that means moving it now and again to ensure its safety). 

Do Google searches on your date or that "new" person you have an "off" feeling about (or if it is a "bad" feeling, just steer clear altogether if you can). The whole point about first encounters is to ask questions (and by the end of a first date, for instance, you would know a full name, whereabouts they live, where they are from, what they do for a living, "if" they work and where, etc.) ...enough to do a general background check. Thus the "first date" 20 questions as some people call it. And then take your time. Sometimes it may take a few dates, but take that "get to know" someone period and get to know that person. You can be modern and traditional at the same time; in fact, it's the new "in" thing. The way someone interacts with you, with others, with an incorrect order or bill, etc. will be someone that will not be able to hide who they "really are" for very long. Hot tempers, attitudes (even those with sadness, depression, inability to cope with much of anything, etc.) it all comes out eventually. Even listening to a person's opinion about something can be a sign about who they are as a person (do they have good character, do they have morals and ethics, etc. ...and not just "say" they do. Remember, actions always speak louder than words.) And remember, gut feelings are generally never wrong, although sometimes they are red flags for a reason; not to be a STOP but merely a precaution or to take caution or to wake up and smell the coffee, pay attention, slow down, take your time...you get the idea. Besides, if it's a good thing and the real thing, baby... it will still be there tomorrow, next week, next month, etc. Good things do last when they are solid, valid and have substance.

This woman's "everything" has not only gone missing, but her every personal file in her home (unfortunately she was "one of those" who kept all records sacred; so let this be a lesson now, save ONLY what you must for legal purposes and shred or burn the rest); but she was missing everything from medical to personal hand-written notes and poetry to her taxes to her books to her insurance and bank information (including a copy of her birth certificates and credit statements) to "old" attorney paperwork to businesses to "you name it." She wasn't kidding when she said everything had been rifled through or gone missing. Some of the missing paperwork has been returned, some showing up "in the trash." Some, she’s certain, never to be seen again. 

Point being, take every precaution you can; do searches and if you notice your computer being "controlled" by another (such as incomplete info shows up, or info you know is there but you can't find), go to the library and use a safe computer to do the search if "nothing" comes up or if you notice your phone acting up "way too often" or way too many times for the normal phone allotment (and we all know what that is); and get a new phone if need be. Be sure to try different search engines, but we like Google thus far as it seems to be the most reliable. And remember, most cell phones are under warranty or come with a certain time frame to get a free replacement. This woman is on her 8th or 9th (we are losing count, honestly). As for computers, learn how to use it and learn how to check for remote users; pay attention to your desktop; and pay attention to scans and how to check if the firewall is working. This guy learned the 7-step hack (that's what she calls it) where he could get through the anti-virus, firewall and into her settings and become a remote user in 7 easy steps (while she watched). She almost became fascinated. 

If you don't know how or refuse to learn, find a "good" computer guru (at least one that you trust) and have him maintain your computer. On the other side of that comes the ultimate "incompetency" we sometimes speak of where computers can act up if they are not properly updated (such as when not properly maintained or updated) or when bogus information or being steered in the wrong direction by someone in customer service who thinks they know it all. We are not claiming to know it all, we are only speaking from experience and don’t claim to be the guru of anything. We only hope to help others from a huge headache, and who knows – maybe even save a life. We all know that the bottom line comes to the fact that customer service just isn't what it used to be so not only do we have to have patience, but victims these days should keep a log to rule out those "incompetencies" and to compare the "real" with the plausible with the actual and factual and even those theories because when dealing with authorities, they really do just want the facts – but your notes are invaluable when it comes time to file that restraining order or deal with an agency that can help. You can’t be expected to remember everything, and having a timeline can be very helpful in any case (plus it keeps you from going absolutely insane – which is their ultimate goal. Do not ever forget that).

More later... but for now, the woman is alive and well. Her sense of humor very much intact, thank goodness. So, for now, have a blessed day and by the way, have you had your smile today?

Even in the after-quake, it's all good...

So here we are almost halfway through February 2013 and "Cyber Stalking" is finally starting to be recognized as something police are taking a little more seriously. But are they?

Local police still think they can ask it to go away and take care of it. What do we mean by that? In due time, dear fans, in due time. In the meantime, we are dealing with an Internet Stalker who has targeted a poor, innocent woman because... well, we don't quite know why as of yet. We still think to be human, with some amount of class and to be ethically and morally sound you wouldn't do this to another human being for any reason; thus, this makes them unalike the rest of the human race. That narrows it down, right? And, to be "hiding" behind a computer screen, taunting, haunting, stalking and trying to terrify an innocent woman for absolutely no reason other than kicks and giggles – makes them men somehow? Uh, no; far from it. So what does it make them? Nothing like we've ever seen, and it certainly doesn't make them worth talking about any more than we have to... so... on that note...

We ran across a few stories in the news recently and wanted to share. Opinions are plenty, whether or not people appreciate those opinions is a whole other point; however, we thought we'd just share a few takes on those recent stories. First, you have this ex-cop Marine Corps fugitive Christopher Dorner on the loose somewhere in the foothills of who knows where in Los Angeles, CA – which means he is highly trained in all weather and pretty much any condition. The likelihood of his capture anytime soon is slim; and even scarier is that he just may carry out a few more of those death threats on that list of 11 before he is captured. Reminds us of that movie with that hunk Gerard Butler ("Law Abiding Citizen") who did this to a prosecutor from his case when he lost his family; only his list of enemies continued to get killed while he was "in" prison and in captivity. It was similar to this case and it certainly had a play out with many similarities and a planning ovrer a long period of time, much like this case. Very interesting. Great movie, but it's never great to see it happen in real life. Our hearts go out to the families of the victims and those searching for him.

And then you have that news anchor woman in St. Louis who was apparently forced to quit her job due to some "Internet Stalker" who was, what did they term him? Oh yes, "overly aggressive" and who basically is still stalking her what she claims to be five years. Really? (Although terrible and awful for her, and of course we feel just awful) ...it also means that again, it just proves our point that this kind of thing – like what is happening to this poor woman in the Bay Area – is "common" and could that be why this woman's case wasn't getting the attention it deserved almost three years ago? Seriously, it made us wonder exactly what was happening when we saw the other articles. And to think that telling someone to "stop it" is going to mean they will just look up and say, "OK" and stop? Not when people who are not in their right or not in any normal frame of mind are involved. But, then again, the point was to make "her" out to be the crazy one, right? So, if that were what even one of them did, and even one authority figure bought it (or even one authority figure were tied in with the likes or dealings of even just one of "them") wouldn't that then mean that she didn't stand a chance in hell? One of her suspects used to taunt her with "we know every cop, judge and authority figure in the Bay Area; do you really think you are going to win at anything or have any type of normal life?"

One might think, anyway, that she didn't stand a chance. And that, readers, is exactly what is wrong with our system. A band of brothers who stand together behind a code of honor that has clearly not only been violated or broken, but with so many walking a thin line for umpteen years it has become just slightly tainted; not to mention that it's not "just" about a code of honor, but it should be about the person, and ethical conduct and all that makes a person do what's right. At this point in time, all we have to say is, "thank the Lord for those who see through the masks, the charades, the stories, the lies, the games, the false vs. the reality – and who can dig through the mud, pull out what's just been muddied vs. what's total BS crap, and then do their job, such as the FBI."

And, if there's one thing a woman hates more than anything, it's to be told in a condescending voice mind you, that it will be handled in a few days. Love, love, love the wishful thinking, because after all, they are "trained" for this sort of thing. Right, it's like the roofer who just finished the roof saying he's not responsible for the damage he did to any of the cable, satellite dishes, security cameras, electrical wiring, telephone, etc. right? Because, ma'am, "you don't know the first thing about normal construction." Right. And Lord knows we are all optimistic about a lot of things, but we are equally realistic; big difference. Some take things like this seriously; others take it as just another story in a pile of millions; and others take it with a seriousness that hey, maybe, just maybe there are psychos out there who may follow through with some of those threats, after all, some were death threats.

It doesn't matter what the likelihood of follow-through is, what matters is that help is made available and justice is served, and that there is still a system in place for that to occur. If the entire thing becomes corrupt, what do the American people have? When local authorities don't believe in what is happening, or choose "peer pressure" like a local youngster would – what chance do you think that community has at coming together or making it? I don't know, just an opinion, yes, but it's an opinion that came out pretty strong after hearing about all of these stories and remembering the help this woman begged for for more than two years. A lot to think about, but more importantly, just because there is a calm it doesn't mean there is a storm but with the same token it doesn't mean there won't be coming, either. And, we say that with a smile because sometimes storms are a good thing; they often clear the air.

For now, the woman sleeps at night (at least a few hours here and there); she can eat her food without feeling like it's been tampered with any longer (at least she's not getting sick anymore); and maybe, just maybe she might feel safe in her travels again. The noises haven't really stopped, though; those noises that she knows were not just an animal on the roof or a person outside or down the block. She still hears footsteps or voices or those "clicks" now and again. She knows when they are near. It's like a mother and her child – eventually the instinct just becomes one of a feeling; that knowing they are there. It's funny because she's known that about his online presence for a long time. I think sometimes it just becomes a part of your protective mode.

For now, enjoy your week ahead and remember, eventually the truth reveals itself; and, it's all good.

HJSF (her new nickname for him) is alive and well...

The woman has noticed her "hacker/stalker" dude continues to not only sign into all of her accounts, change the settings, ("forwarding" email address, visual effects (he is apparently blind and has to turn the screen on "large" print, etc.), and change things to "his" liking so he can "see" her anytime he wants to via the computer; he continuously gets into this account because he likes to "erase" the tracking data, although ironically there are "several" different accounts that track the info, (and we will just say here and now that once you report an account to Google as hacked, well, enough said) -- so such as we can see who is viewing this particular account, it appears to be some vampire site, another rating site and a few others ad-related. Otherwise, he thinks he has erased the data and kept her "clueless." Ha ha.

Hacker dude has now also gained access to her personal hard drive and not only "copied" her entire hard drive and its contents, but erased ALL of her latest work, from her "book" that is personal and not even public yet (there are a whole lot of issues surrounding that, although it is copyrighted so we will see what authorities and criminal attorney has say about that one); but the articles and "personal" info were for publishing as well (assigned so there are now publishing rights involved), not to mention the people she interviewed and has kept notes on, etc. that is supposed to remain "private" -- not to mention her personal photos, her family (the ones of her is what she is most worried about); and other things like work and photos that took weeks and months to gather and do research and then in a matter of seconds all of this work "just disappeared." Crazy.

He has also recently created "another" account for himself and just attached himself as a "user" and now she has sharing on everything and everywhere, with remote desktop controls planted everywhere to boot (that was a new one). There were even little ".exe" Trojans dropped here and there – hidden behind software or downloads and updates. So, either he has assisted the help of someone who is versed in this stuff, or they are equally jealous (or hateful/spiteful) because who does this to someone, right? Who not only stalks/hacks someone for almost 3 years, continuously day in and day out – and then steals there info (remember, this is computer number 7; cell phone number 5, etc.). What, he can't think for himself either and needs info and is using hers to get through life? Does he steal everything? From certain contacts and info only such as "wine" contacts and info to certain articles; for instance, anything "dating" related, forget it. Damaged; destroyed; gone in an instant on finding. If she doesn't code it, it's gone the second he finds it, especially if he disagrees with it or mentions "crazy." It's almost comical actually. So why the contacts and articles keep mysteriously "disappearing" who knows. Heck, we are running out of ideas. We at first thought he was just after the business – that he wanted to know "what it was all about and he was after that "never before been done" secretive business plan" – but now it's way beyond that. It has become evident that he is either far beyond in love with her and has gone completely cookoo bananas; or, he truly is just psycho.

All we know is that not only is her info getting stolen, but they went after our info, contacts, files, etc. –again, still. And, he has copies of things that are extremely personal, and some that are just not publicized yet, such as a book; business info; etc. so no doubt there are multiple felonies wrapped up in that because there are also medical files. So, what does one say after being stalked for so long and this being allowed to occur? I suppose in the grand scheme of things, the way we see it, due to the attention we just may end up thanking him some day.

She thought it was to keep her from succeeding; to drive her crazy (or try to); but as she says – be very careful who you try to drive crazy if they are already walking that thin line *laugh* ;)  But in all seriousness, who does this to another human being? It is just not human. It is not logical. It is not right. It is just not acceptable. But, the one thing I suppose he did not count on was meeting his match patience-wise. Although it's almost ironic because you'd have to be human to have patience. Nuts, isn't it?

So, he may continue to hack into her accounts,our accounts, her employer's accounts – steal info, erase info, make her life a living hell (the intent, we are sure); in fact, the other day after talking to authorities – during a period of time he was "not" present (actually, during a period of time he was changing his DNS routing (long story for another time) ...during this time, she was left to "do her work" without being harassed, and she managed to get her work done in less than 20 minutes, whereas it takes her a normal 3 hours with him on harassing her. So, as you can imagine – just not having his presence, or him going in to mess things up, saves over 2 hours of her time. Just that type of thing can save her from his idiocy and ridiculousness. For what? To mess with her? Make himself look good? But he doesn't even show himself, so that makes absolutely NO sense. Again, it's not normal human behavior – it truly is from the workings of minds of abnormal or someone seeking revenge. We can tell from experience, it certainly isn't out of love, not even the psycho kind. *laugh*

We do know that what they don't know (we say they because there are still multiple issues, multiple hackers) is that there are tracers; we won't go into detail, but just as they can drop their little ".exe" files that are sometimes "remote desktop" files or "trojans" – there are two-way droppers. The same for what happens when you inform someone you've been severely hacked. Enough said. So, erasing tracking codes or erasing partial or all of the history in someone's browser? *shaking head* It won't erase a presence. Any "real" hacker will tell you that.

So, for those who suspect someone has been on there computer, there are ways to check; we would suggest a great site by the FBI (                         ) and from there, be sure your system is up-to-date and all programs and software are kept updated. Stay informed about your Windows programs, such as some have had back doors and issues and there are patches (and if you have auto downloads, they can be auto corrected). Anti-virus even have back doors, so be careful. Some good ones are Kaspersky; the one thing you need to be certain of with any anti-virus is to wipe your drive and bios and roots of any malware and ensure your stalker is not present on that machine before you start over. This is a MUST because they can hide, and sometimes in the software you copy and put back on your machine. So, the experts can help with this – that's why they get paid the big bucks :)

This woman not only found one remote user, she found three. Nice, right? Three people roaming her computer. And then she found they had copied her entire hard drive, after making it "public" – with two download system folders. They also did versions of files and folders (up to six or even a dozen, to make her think she was "crazy" thinking she had revised a file or not done work, etc.) – that was the worst. Spending weeks on an interview and then to have the file disappear. Or writing an article and having it disappear before your very eyes or when you walk out of the room to get coffee. What was the purpose? No matter how many times she would disable remote users, media (the way they got in) – they were already there. She would turn on her phone and find several unknown devices show up when trying to pair her Bluetooth; another indication. Her cable would go on and off whenever she was 15 minutes to the end of a movie (his favorite). So don't think your cable can't be hacked – everything is hackable, especially if Wi-Fi.

And again, when someone enters through a back door on your computer and gets to your anti-virus, be sure your password covers the "silent mode" because if he can silence the messages, the damage they can do if you don't see those pop up can be done in a matter of minutes. He could get into the anti-virus via back doors, silencing first all of the notifications (because otherwise she could see what he was up to), then he goes to that and disables it, then to the firewall to revamp settings and adjust, etc. and then he downloads and unblocks certain programs. He then resets firewall settings, allows certain programs, adds certain programs to the block/allow list, and then gets out (or stays in). And this is all within a matter of minutes by the way. There is a trail if you know where to look.

The other thing is that is so scary is that although he is no longer stalking her in person (at least that she is aware), he is continuously "monitoring" her by stalking her via the Internet. Internet Stalking, the new stalking for those who have no stones. So, we are just wondering at what point that part becomes "illegal"? Like really, dude? You can't break into her home at-will anymore so now you have to stalk her via the Internet? Wow, like that makes you some big man with nothing inside or in-between. We aren't even going there (don't get me started, like she says all the time). At some point they will be caught, as I have told them repeatedly. My patience, and hers, is as strong as their will to be crazy. With that said, as she hears them sometimes or sees his presence on the Internet, she patiently waits. And waits. Because one of these days she will be the one visiting him behind the other side of the glass screen.

We hope your week has been going well. All of our has -- and then some. The business is moving along, and all sorts of wonderful things are in the works. More on that soon.. the information is on the "other" computer and the email tree is not in our working phones but our other phones. Having to keep secretive everything is a little crazy but in a way, it is setting her up for when she finally goes incognito. Oh we can't wait – the treats that are in store then for her fans. In the meantime, hold those smiles and don't let the stress get to you. Take a deep breath and remember, it does get better. Just be thankful you don't have an Internet Stalker/Hacker dude *laugh* (love that her sense of humor is intact)

Oh, and Happy Valentine's Day! It's only a few weeks away... be careful of the online dating sites... and be careful of the red flags... just have a good time and trust your instincts, they are never wrong. If you must use a dating site, just don't go with old rules – the new rules are ask all those taboo questions on the first date; get to know that person and use the traditional standards with long courtships; no one and we mean absolutely no one can be revealed in less than six months. Give it time and meet their family; watch how they act in front of others, including animals, the woman behind the counter at the grocery store, in traffic – everywhere and with every situation. The signs will be there. And by the way, living at home is fine if you are there with your parents for a reason, to help financially, one is struggling, or a recent tragedy – something that  brought the family together. And yes, this day and age people are living together due to expenses and whatnot; just be careful of those that are supported by mommy and daddy or who are not independent and who can't think for themselves. If that cell phone keeps ringing or if mommy says they can't stay late – just a few signs that there may be something wrong somewhere. Again, pay attention to the signs. We are not knocking roommate situations or parents helping their children (temporarily), etc. We are simply reminding people of not letting peer pressure or the "sign of the times" cloud your judgment with someone you're trying to get to know. That's it. Mere examples.


Oh, and by the way... due to the "hacking" we don't receive all posts, notes or any comments so if you have posted we apologize. Do try again.

A "New Year 2013" brings not only luck, but a new outlook...

We'd like to wish everyone a wonderful, magical and "lucky" new year in 2013 and we hope that all of you are prepared for what's to come as there are some exciting things coming your way.

For those following our posts for all of 2012, we appreciate your support and although we will continue with brief updates, the posts were removed. But no worries folks, the details of what this poor woman has gone through have not been forgotten, nor has she been lost in the world with the rest of the victim's. During the holidays there were some horrific things that occurred, but there were also some many good things. In light of the good (always the focus), she remains hopeful that someday this will all come to end. Until then, she forges on with determination to continue with a somewhat normal life (whatever that new normal be).

For now, her "stalker, hacker & harasser" remains alive and well and although he may be having difficulty with entering what is supposed to be her "safe" home at will as he used to, at least not with her new house guest and the fact that her home has been secured. In retaliation, however, he has slammed her on the Internet tenfold. It is a shame as she has been hit extremely hard in so many areas including what brings her joy and balance, it is a wonder she is able to maintain inner peace at all. 

This guy has now been allowed to enter her social media and business accounts at will, including the changing of codes that track things from traffic to payment; he's been allowed to change profile information to security information – and who knows what else. She recently had to put a fraud alert on her credit as a safety precaution for strange activity. She was told multiple issues were happening by authorities, which we knew all along, and it's no doubt there are multiple back doors.

She is doing everything possible to ensure her life doesn't get further ruined while he continues to find ways to make her think of him daily (isn't that the way it works with “this type” of person?) What is most troublesome is that it is being allowed, continuously, repeatedly, day in and day out. We have come to the conclusion that with things like erasing the tracking code he thinks it will erase the trail that leads to him; but surely he knows that it's not just her who uses such a code – that the publishing tool and site would use the same, thus authorities could trace him and his location in a matter of seconds. So perhaps it's not the tracing of his steps he wants removed but rather the ridiculous time it takes for her to have to re-enter the information, and more to the point – her thoughts of what an idiot he is or how much she dislikes what he is doing (the whole "she has to think of him" theory). Plausible, we suppose. But again, everything has a theory and truth behind, and whether it leads to a “conspiracy theory” behind the mind of a psycho or simplistic theory behind simple human error found behind “incompetency,” the truth always comes to light and reveals itself. Always. The good news with him being so diligent in his efforts to screw with her livelihood – by the doing of this, it brings the events from a minor misdemeanor and innocent hacking arena to categories lingering in the felony count zones.

This woman is strong and comes with a great deal of patience; that we have witnessed for ourselves. She said it has been extremely difficult in many areas, sometimes it felt she had been hit from all sides, with some people that didn't understand or who may have questioned something that had happened (making her feel they were questioning her); she even said some questioned her belief in some of the events that occurred, as if maybe it was not related somehow (just questioning her made it feel they were doubting her). She said it almost became easier to withdraw than to have to help people understand or to help them want to be more supportive. 

We tried to explain to her that this was normal; that some victims do withdraw with some even feeling more alone, especially when family and friends don't understand what the victim has gone through, or what they are currently going through – most particularly a tragedy that lasts a long time, such as with abuse. And even further broken down abuse goes much deeper when it comes to understanding such as with aspect or the length of time involved; some victims live in abusive relationships for years, many not leaving for fear. And oddly, sometimes a woman may stay out of loneliness. On the other side of that abuse coin might be those that want to leave but don’t how to begin; some may not have a clue how if that’s all they’ve known (such as right out of high school into an abusive relationship) or who don’t have help, or local support, financial assistance – or who simply just don’t know what to do to get out of the relationship. Regardless, it is equally damaging, and to an outsider, equally or more difficult to understand.

There are of course other types of abuse that occur in instances such as with this woman, where the abuse comes in many forms from the abuse of her “safe” space at home, to her computer (social networks, email that is supposed to be “private” to her phone, car, personal files, records, etc.) and the occurrence of such lasting for well over 2 years. Such a violation mimics abusive relationships, and, it can be difficult for others to understand – and rightfully so (there is no right or wrong with being the victim or supporter).

What we’d like to express is that crisis doesn’t just hit a victim, and it affects everyone in their lives – family, friends and even coworkers. And quite honestly, with what has happened and is happening to this woman, every single day of her life, imagine the frustration for her and for those that love and support her. It just can’t be easy on anyone.

Perhaps the one thing we can offer to others who may have a friend or family member experiencing crisis (of any kind, really) of whom they don't understand, or that maybe you’ve reached a point of being unable to take “any more of the story” out of frustration  we can only say this: Take a break. We often tell the victims this as well. Without taking a step back to find a different view, there’s no way to be able to accept or change perspective or direction.

The other thing we try to tell supporters is to just try to let the person know you care; trying to fix or change a problem immediately is not what victims want – they want only to know they have support and someone who cares for them. Being a victim is often more like existing in a dark and scary world, and very much alone. As friends and family who love and want to help these people, to see anyone they care about suffering hurts so naturally the first thing anyone tries to do is to change that, or fix it – ultimately leading to more harm than good. Believe it or not, however, it’s more about the touching of a person’s heart – that connection by humans that let’s the other know, in this case the victim, that you care and are there for them – 24/7 no matter what. That heart-kiss is worth a thousand hugs and words, and sometimes it is like hugging from a distance. It can come from telling a person you are there via text, email, telephone and in person – the point being, it’s not about what you want to do to help the victim, but about what the victim needs.

So next time that friend or family member of yours calls that you know is hurting, give them that kiss from your heart – let them know you are there for them, whatever they need.

And for supporters who come up with predetermined judgment, or who come to their own conclusions – be careful about voicing those. Sometimes the damage done is more severe than you might think. Sometimes saying to your friend that it doesn’t sound possible, or that you just can’t believe so-and-so could do such a thing – or worse, questioning their belief about what is happening (when they live it day in and day out); you might as well just flat out say to them, “I don’t believe you and I think you’re the one who is crazy.”

Another crucial stage might be during recovery, "after the dust settles" or while it is settling – when people don’t always know what to do or what another needs in their time of healing. Getting the proper help is crucial, which is exactly why Angels Gate Network is gathering a list of resources for those in need. Having that list of resources available is extremely important because sometimes the victim does feel alone, and sometimes there is nothing anyone can do during the healing process. Just imagine all the healing victims have to endure – and all the healing this woman will have to endure after almost 3 years of being stalked, hacked and harassed – she's been an open book for abuse for a very long time. It's not like she's going to wake up one morning and suddenly be cured. I think we just wanted to convey that support is a wonderful thing, and it doesn’t mean you have to understand something to be able to support those you care about. All victims need the unbiased and unconditional love and support of family and friends; and we just hope that everyone remembers that all relationships take work, with the remembering of the most important thing: It is never too late to be there for someone.

Oh, and there were a few things about technology that came up in a recent conversation such as a few folks who thought their computers had been infected or “died” after visiting this woman’s Facebook page or after receiving a Facebook message from this woman. First and foremost, people should understand that if they don’t maintain their computers with anti-virus, keep them up to date and programs updated (and know what they are doing) – going on any site is a risk. Sites like Facebook especially are taking a risk, so no, receiving a message from a friend on Facebook or even an email is not going to give you a virus – it’s going to take a lot more than that. You can visit a site that has a virus on it, and if your anti-virus doesn’t catch it, you could kiss your computer goodbye. We again just want to convey that people – more to the point, your friends and family, can’t be the blame for viruses. So be kind with your words and be careful not to blame the wrong person for you being careless or your machine not being carefully maintained. This woman made one reference to her “address book” being hacked over 2 years ago and everyone in it since getting hacked at one time or another – and it seems several of those people now think it was “her” who is to blame.

We hope we have enlightened a few folks today, if anything to help them become better supporters to their family and friends. Hacking has become a huge issue across the globe, and it’s not just about this woman, or the guy down the block or the girl a city over – it is happening everywhere and in a headline on every newspaper, on every site in America. So don’t place blame but do help us try to solve the issues. We can all start by being better supporters of those going through some of these issues or who are facing crisis.

We will continue to keep you all updated on things, however, for now we wish you a very happy, healthy, fruitful and wonderful New Year.

Stay tuned for more enlightenment, and of course, more "Conspiracy – or Incompetency Theory?" (scheduled to be released in 2013) a book written by an "Anonymous Angel" who has been stalked, hacked and harassed by someone (or, rather, a few individuals) for more than 2-1/2 years now – and she's getting just a wee bit tired of it being allowed to continue.

As with anything in life, however, there is always something good that comes from tragedy (the lesson not always being for the person going through it); thus as we continue on this journey with her, we will update you and continue to focus on the good. And, we will most certainly be sharing those good things with all of you so that everyone can benefit.

In the meantime, those that may be experiencing trouble with stalkers, hacking or harassment, or who may need assistance please do give us a shout, we'd be happy to hear from you. Ciao for now! ^i^