Monday, April 29, 2013

He thinks he's killing softly...

So the saga continues. It's like a Spielberg meets Hitchcock meets Spongebob movie, only it never ends (thus the sometimes idiotic, comedic Spongebob addition). She lives this nightmare every single day; and every single day he continues to hack her emails and "try" to destroy her life. Every single aspect of it. And he's allowed. Amazing.

He recently used a phone she no longer had. Yes, imagine that. She was no longer paying for the phone; had "canceled" the phone.. yet it is still working, with her info connected to it. Imagine that. Her gmail account says its data and email were linked to that phone all month, yet she didn't have her email linked to it... she purposely deleted all email (unbenownst to the hacker dude). And even after "calling" the ISP (which says a lot about Sprint & Virgin Mobile) -- her account continues to remain active, even though they claim it is "dead." Amazing.

We publish this only because people need to check, double check and triple check that their accounts are indeed "closed" and not just closed, but canceled and deleted. Just as she did. Ha ha.

She continues to cruise the net just to see.. figuring someone will eventually trace it, right?

He followed her to her new location; she did not bring phones or computers -- but he knew within a week. She knew he knew well before that; either that or her new roomie was nosey as heck. They broke in at least 7 times (according to her count); with items either broken or missing. An antique tea set from the 1920's is the latest broken. That was fun to find. Money, SD cards, photos, evidence... things he thinks will hang them all (all associated?) Who knows. They continue to come in "at will." The smoke alarm went off while she was taking a cold shower (same type of thing that used to occur in her "old" place. Maybe they thought she'd come running out without a towel? *shaking head*

So... not to give him notoriety by any means... but hello... this woman is in need of some assistance here. She applied for a safe address... that she can't seem to obtain. For some reason, it keeps getting delayed... as do the phone calls.. and the return calls.. and the messages... and the forms.. etc. (you get the idea). It's as if no matter what she does, something happens. Seems folks are "afraid" to help her.. people don't want to "get involved.". Any willing participants out there unafraid to assist here?

We are at the point of taking any willing help. We can't tell you anything about her whereabouts, but what we can tell you is a bit of interesting info that we found very interesting... not only was no proof of service received by the other party (yet a response was filed immediately on his behalf as to "how good their relationship was while together" -- totally missing the point as to why the RO was filed in the first place or the fact that they were technically only together a few months before the red flags started to show) ...but as usual, she has yet to receive her mail. We just found that a tad bit interesting. And, criminals get their one free postponement, as he did his. And attorney. And he wanted to postpone until a certain date; judge said sorry, no calendar that day (it was her birthday, ironically; we are sure no coincidence there). And then judge said a few weeks later to which a sudden "no" burst out due to no representation availability followed by a vacation; however, the judge just said how about a week from then? And suddenly sure, availability not an issue -- even though a few minutes prior there wasn't availability due to representation? Wonder if anyone else in the courtroom caught that one as well? There's more but we can't go into it. Just the same old... email getting hacked "daily" along with her FB, bank account, "new" emails, passwords, social accounts, "employer" accounts, business accounts, etc. We couldn't figure out how it was being done, but then found out codes were being used... along with password changes, erasing phone and two-step info and all other info, putting back what they could before she logged back in -- recovering accounts while on her wi-fi (same "blank" wi-fi name as before) -- in other words, same thing different computer. Oh, and the old passwords, so that it makes her look "stupid"? Nice one.

She can't get her printer to work again, not since court last week... so... not sure how he managed that one. It's just one thing after another. Erasing more info, thinking it was the only copy. Everything under the sun has been gone through, copied and returned. Her files are a mess. She got rid of everything -- decided it wasn't worth having anything anyone could get into anymore. The one thing he wants that he didn't get -- he is trying desperately to get one way or another -- breaking in every chance he gets from thinking it's in her purse or safe, drawer, desk or somewhere "evident" when she's not that crazy to keep it that close or easy for him to get.  It's almost comical, but at the same time annoying -- he keeps damaging things while looking. Insurance cannot replace these items handed down to her by her grandparents; or the items that were supposed to go to her children and grandchildren. He is a relentless with no-soul, no-heart and it's as if a non-human being that is not thinking. He must not think of his own children or mother. It is just awful. How dare he damage her belongings like that as if they were disposable and worthless. Almost anything of value has been destroyed, damaged or stolen. It is so sad.

The shower head she talked about that had gone missing? It was returned.. partially opened.. not sure what their plans were for that; the fact that it had been partially opened should have been a clue. Perhaps the same plans they had when they replaced the center of her last shower head with a "metal" piece when it was all off-white and plastic. As if she wouldn't notice. It makes her sick to think what could have happened. She has never allowed anything of that sort to occur ever in her entire life -- never has ever done anything that was for taping, photography, etc. that was of that nature. So to think someone taped or filmed her or her family while in the shower is unthinkable. Disgusting. Makes her sick. And that would have been for a two-week period, at least. The only people in her home were the cleaning crew that her daughter found on Groupon, or, hacker/stalker dude. Nice.

Same with where she is now. Texting to let her friend know when the lock would be changed and to have the roomie show up that one time only at that particular time, breaking their routine that one day only -- for a lock change? Things like that can be coincidences, or just a lucky setup. She had the lock changed that morning at 8:30 a.m., arrangements setup on a different phone that no one was supposed to know about. It's things like that that make people go "hmm." We post these things because she is not the only one that these things are happening to. Her makeup? Once again her eyebrow and eyeliner pencils are being "ground" down to flat -- kept in the bathroom, not locked so completely accessible. It's like wow, they can't get to the locked stuff so now it's back to that. It's what used to occur at the old place; a sure sign he's been there again -- at her new place. What in the world could he possibly be jealous of? The agency claims they see that all the time from ex-boyfriend stalkers. Nice. She says it makes one feel oh so secure.

She was just looking through her accounts. She not only found that her email account has a YouTube Video account "setup" and linked to it, but that it also has settings. When she first logged on, she discovered that it had settings for videos longer than 15 seconds. She just took the info and logged it, photos, etc. Then she started fishing around (this is after recovering her account yet again, about fifth time in a week?) ...and she finds that 11 apps have been uploaded to the phone that she hasn't had access to, or hasn't had email hooked to, remember? Including DLink.. a video program. She remembers this very well because she tried to use this camera and system on her phone one time (not through this account she is looking at, however) to track hacker.. only he found it and disabled it and did his usual disabling, etc. when she would go out of town. So now her mind was spinning, right? What in the world is she doing with a YouTube account, and with a video account, let alone 11 apps on a phone she is not using?

Add to that the settings that first appeared in Spanish. Great, was someone he enlisted Spanish speaking to boot? Would that explain the multiple times "David" from VM would keep telling her "not to worry, ma'am" your account is super secure with extra heavy "security measures" at Virgin Mobile; you have nothing to worry about and "I assure you, your phone has never been hacked." I wonder what color the sky is in his world. Unless he's involved. It was always "David" who closed the account or sent the new phone -- the replacement phone that came with a back, battery and SD card inserted. Or Alex, the guy who would first send you your PIN via text as a "test" text to ensure the phone was working correctly; and then send you a phone or inccorectly notate your account so you looked stupid when you called again (because they really don't know how to handle a hacker). She is just tired of sugar coating the customer service and being told "you don't have a hacker, ma'am, that's just ridiculous." And yet, she would call repeatedly with her PIN being texted to her, or the phone or texting not working "sent from a "hidden sender" or no calls received, or no calls going out... or her favorite, calling to a 24/7 number, such as AT&T or PG&E...and hearing, "sorry, we are closed now." Right. Anyway, this was not a bitch session or a complaint blog -- this was a note to be careful of the programs that are on your phone, or downloaded to your phone. Gmail may be easily hacked -- and not so easily recovered (or easily recovered if the hacker knows you and your life) but so is every other email out there if he has a program on your every device from wifi, computer, phone, cable, PG&E to Lord knows what else he can get his hands on. It is incredible what they can do remotely these days -- and make it look like you did it from your own computer.

We really do need to make this very, very clear. This blog was initially written because she was not hearing from authorities in the beginning; she thought it was her only way of hearing from someone. Remember, toward the end of last year and the beginning of this year, a Sgt. was "calling" her still and refusing to take a report. She desperately needed something to be done and she was basically being told she was the crazy one. She is not knocking anyone -- my goodness, this hacker /stalker idiot is good at making people look crazy. But, for goodness sakes, if only some of what she said were "looked" at or if officers had only witnessed even a portion of what she is saying happened, then authorities would have a clue. And, if only more understood the severity of what was being done -- this would not have gotten to the level it did. Not by a long shot.

She wasn't just finding someone in her yard or plantings of "individuals" on her security system or messages; she was finding "someone" that looked like her on her security camera. She was finding messages, threats and innuendos on her security camera that were obviously hand-written -- before it went blank or eventually was damaged completely. Well, it wasn't until the roofers who installed the new roof when it was completely damaged -- she found, however, that one of the roofers was talking to the neighbor in question at the old place and next thing she knew, the wires had been spliced on every camera in the system on the outer perimeter, and then of course as they did the roof above her room, the attic, well -- you know the camera system there had been destroyed. Coincidence? Perhaps. Again, just another one of those things that make one go "hmm." And the roofer? He claimed "no liability" whatsoever; said it was not his issue -- even though we were home the entire time he was working on the roof (two whole weeks mind you) -- he could have knocked on the door at any given time and said to please remove the cameras, unwire them, move them off the eve -- whatever he needed done. But no, they just spliced them in half, three's and more -- and then tried to tape them as if nothing happened. And then pulled the "no liability" and said it was in the contract. Really? Wow... and they call that professional? There's an article there -- it goes way beyond any customer service or professionalism I ever heard. We come from a family of contractors and construction; we know better. The roofer was an idiot, plain and simple.

The backup security system was no good -- more of a deterrent. A major brand mind you, and once again we've already written about this one. Again, she was approached by them to install, and sure enough during the majority of all the hacking/stalking and break-ins -- so sure, she was all for it, right? So, not sure how that fairs in all of this. She guesses that due to the fact that she was approached (sound familiar?), and that the guy who installed was seen in a car driven by the guy who was not only seen where she used to walk frequently, but also turned out to be a boyfriend of an ex-friend's girlfriend -- of whom, by the way, had a thing for this ex-boyfriend stalker dude and who made it known she hated that he approached this woman rather than her at the dance. Really? Wow.) Anyway, so another coincidence? Perhaps. There are so many pieces to this puzzle that we have not yet revealed and have been saving -- we just wanted to reveal a few because we have been discovering that as some evidence come to light, it is linking more and more people that we are shocked to find involved, yet it also pushes some over the ledge and makes others realize the severity of what we are dealing with.

For another taste, while she was moving, files would be replaced inside boxes or even in her "safe" with files she had thrown in shred; so a sign he used to do previously (his favorite way of saying "I was here"). He even left new boxes of shred or papers to go through -- after she was done with the house completely -- meaning they had returned even more paperwork they took from her home, even after she was done. It got to the point she had to stop going by there as she kept finding the garbage emptied; more boxes showing up filled with papers -- it was almost comical, but gettiing expensive. She no longer knew what was missing -- but she was sure it was somewhere between 2008 and 2012.As you know, hacker/stalker dude cannot do this alone, so he had to have enlisted the assistance of those in desperate need of "something." After all, who else would be so low as to do something like to another, and continue at such great pace -- unless for drugs or money? And how can he be in court and how can her room be burglarized at the same time, right? They have to know where she is at all times and that was a perfect setup. Unless of course it's her new roomie; CraigsList is, after all, not that reliable. It's like another nightmare movie that doesn't end.

So, as we forge on, we also continue to seek expertise in certain areas and help in others. What we can offer is continued partnerships in our ventures; we can discuss details with the right folks. We realize this is a lot of info but we released a bit more this time so people would know what we are dealing with and the level of their expertise needed (or the level these perps think they have). This woman is looking for help and as most can tell, desperately needs it. Never mind those piggy-backing off her name for marketing; she's given up on that and doesn't care. It isn't about her profile -- the others she has discussed this with (the other high profile business men who are undergoing similar situations and who have been told by authorities there is little that can be done) -- they feel the same; frustrated, and as though they are helpless. To a point.

She has sought assistance both under and above ground; and has the assistance of authorities, of whom she still has utmost faith in -- regardless of those few with whom the stalker/hacker dude has managed to convince she just might be somewhat "crazy." Well, that's all well and good -- but the way we see it, you just might have to be a little crazy to have made it through almost three years of someone doing this to you; how else could you get through without having gone after him herself, right? Ha ha. Just kidding. Geez, she can't even joke around or she could be deemed crazy and dangerous. Point being, she has remained sane and intends to long enough to see justice done. She has no choice. All of the other women have run or moved; that in itself intrigues many of us. She guesses because of the hell it takes just to get a Restraining Order filed let alone go through the process or try to fight something like this. These days it's a system built around the criminal with a guilty until proven innocent -- for the victim. We have never been so amazed by such a system and we are certain some authorities are equally amazed. However, we have to believe in justice prevailing. We just have to. With that said, we can only hope God is with her and others who have undergone similar circumstances and we can only hope it gets better. It just has to.

She refuses to be afraid; what they obviously tried to make her feel and continuously try to make her feel. This noise at night and the going through fences (it really is comical) and the leaving gates open and whatnot --it's getting old. Following her? C'mon ...she can pick out the stalkers vs. the PI's vs. well.. you get the idea. He can make her think she is as crazy as crazy comes but she intends to stand her ground because she won't let him take her everything away, nor will she let him destroy everything about her. He thinks he is killing her softly; he is building her up and he has no idea.

We sure hope no one else has had to endure what this woman has... but if by chance you have, we'd love to hear from you. Oh yes, and we are also looking for a writer. Contact us; we'd love to hear from those interested in helping. She is in need of quite a few "various" types of resources right now; I wish we could go into detail but we can't just yet. He really has done some major damage. He continuously hacks us so no matter the address, we still don't know how to receive your email; we just tried to allow posts and it won't let us -- no matter what we try to do, it won't let us do anything. Keep trying. we will try to provide alternate resources. You can also try another writer, PKCosta1@gmail.com -- if all else fails; she writes for Examiner.com and might be able to assist. Thank you so much for your continued support.

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